But the file does not live alone. It sits amid a diaspora of duplicates, backups, and cloud copies — the scattering of a self across devices and servers with names that mutate as they travel. "Leyla_best_final.jpg" becomes "Leyla_best_final (1).jpg" when another hand touches it. Software generates new names: "IMG_00984.jpg," "Screen Shot 2024-03-15 at 09.42.11.png." Algorithms slap their labels on too, deciding which frames are "best" by faces detected, by engagement predicted, by color histograms and contrast curves. There is a strange alliance — human impulse and machine suggestion — that decides what gets elevated. Sometimes the human judgment wins; sometimes the algorithm quietly reshapes our memory by recommending what to treasure.
We live now in an age that insists on bests. Social platforms distill days into highlight reels, and our personal folders echo that logic. "Best" is not a neutral adjective; it is a performance. When we label something best, we declare a version of ourselves to the world and to ourselves: the self that chooses beauty, that remembers meaning. Yet that declaration is provisional. What we call the best today may be forgotten tomorrow — displaced by newer files, newer proofs of living.
Filenames are a form of intimacy, performed with our thumbs and our finite attention. Consider the quiet labor of tapping keys late at night — deciding whether to keep the .jpg or convert to .png, whether to append "final" or "edit2" as if that would settle the restlessness of memory. There is tenderness in that slowness: the pixel-perfect, decisive moment when you mark one file "best" and let go of the rest. It is a tiny ritual of grief and triumph, an attempt to curate meaning in the face of infinite capture.
There is also resilience in these small acts. Within closets of images, a file labeled in a hurried hand can become an archive of survival. "Leyla_best.jpg" could be the last photograph of a house before it burned; the first portrait after a long illness; a child's face lit by a kitchen lamp. The plainness of the name belies the tenderness of the moment it guards. Names are mnemonic scaffolding: they let us reconstruct a life by tracing the files we chose to save.